October brings in New Friends // Side Notes

Side Notes is a monthly wrap up where I share the interesting, and incredibly inspiring things I found during the month that I couldn’t fit in any post. Expect awesome recs, awesome books and awesome bloggers.

Also expect: fangirling (lots of it) and a glimpse into my life — the happy, the chaos and all.

You know how I said in the September Side Notes that the second half of September brought in lots of good stuff?

I’m happy to say that it continued on to October!

(cue happy dance)

It wasn’t all rainbow and sunshine and unicorns, of course. There were definitely sucky moments. But all of those were offset by the amazing things that October brought 🙂

interesting finds

In the Blogosphere

For this month’s Blogger Feature, I wanted to highlight on October posts about mental health awareness. It was thanks to Twitter and mental health advocates online that I was able to better understand what people with mental health issues and illnesses are going through.

Imagine that. One girl has further educated herself just by scrolling through her phone! Can you imagine if mental health was deeply discussed in primary and secondary education in the same way that, say, fever and common cold is??

Brittany lists down reasons to add gratitude into your life. And she sourced some awesome studies related to gratitude, too!

Amy is my favorite find this month! She has awesome content from geeky stuff like the evolution of sci-fi movies to relatable adulting posts like learning not to doubt your worth.

The Gaming Diaries shared her personal experience with mental health for World Mental Health Day.

Victoria talked about oversharing, the stigma surrounding mental health and why we need to speak about it regardless of what others say.

I’m all for learning about things that other people go through everyday. Which is why I find this post by Megan on Hydrocephalus and Spina Bifida Awareness Week super informative!

Alison listed down seven powerful ideas to stop overthinking and I’m taking down notes!

I talked about how we need to get better at asking for help this month, and Bri has written the best post to accompany that: Ask and You Shall Receive. It’s on-point and you need to read it!

Louise shared some great self-care ideas to fight depression and it’s a must-read.

Rachel wrote her experience on Craniosacral Therapy, a gentle therapy great for people of all ages. Which I’m itching to try out now after feeling relaxed just reading her post!

The Awesome Side of the Internet

Yes, yes. I know. The Internet can be a jerk sometimes. But it is also filled with authentic and incredibly inspiring human stories. I always believe it only takes one kind heart for other kindness to join in 🙂

<3 This flawless white duck is the epitome of perfection. Don’t fight me.

<3 Billie Eilish’s new song, when the party’s over, is eerie and beautiful. I LOVE IT.

<3 shreyadoodles on Instagram has wholesome and funny comics!

recommendations of the month
Kiki’s Delivery Service

Whenever I think of Halloween, I think of witches. And there are certainly tons of awesome witches in shows and films but Kiki takes the cake for me.

This film is about Kiki, a young witch who left the safety of her childhood home to set out and start her witch training in the outside world. She met lots of friends and faced equal amounts of obstacles along the way. Of the obstacles she was going through, it was the inner obstacle she faced that deeply resonated with me.

Kiki’s Delivery Service (photo source)


Run by two amazing women, ScreenPrism is an amazing channel if you like to watch video essays about your favorite films. They tackle on every film brilliantly, pointing out what’s good and what’s bad about it – but they are never overly critical, something I dislike about other similar channels. They even have a beautiful analysis on Kiki’s Delivery Service, likening Kiki to a typical Millennial Creative. Watch it; it’s awesome.

the little things

Little Victories – Kickass Stuff that Happened This Month

  • I made new blogging friends, ahhh! (Shoutout to the awesome Lavrax, who has finished Blogtober and just downright rocks!)
  • Gained 600 followers on Twitter (what what???) and I’ve finally stepped in to the three-digit realm in Instagram with a current 100+ followers!
  • I scored well on the midterm exam of the most difficult subject I have this year, and I couldn’t be happier!!
  • Finally did a few art this month, yay!

Little Detours – What Kicked My Ass This Month

(because we’re not perfect, and it’s good to share your awful moments)

  • Got incredibly sick for two weeks.
  • Midterms week.
  • Didn’t reach my Inktober goals this year (I was aiming for at least 20 drawings but nope, only got around 10)
  • Have gotten behind my content writing (see reason: first bullet)
  • I still haven’t repotted Watson’s babies.

Little Milestones – Things I Want to Achieve or Do Next Month

(because according to Gretchen Rubin’s Four Tendencies, I am an Obliger and I need outside accountability to reach personal goals)

  • Finish my November post line-up before the end of the first week and get started on probably half of December posts
  • Send out 5 guest post pitches to bloggers in my focus topics (personal growth and creativity)
  • This isn’t exactly a milestone but I want to pass all my subjects this year. I’m adamant on graduating, okay?

Last Month’s Self-Improvement Challenge

Read a chapter of a nonfiction book a day. Okay, so I was well into this. Until midterms week happened and Accounting books were all I’ve read for the rest of the month. And then I got a cold for two weeks so… this didn’t happen. I really enjoyed Grit by Angela Duckworth, though and I can’t wait to get back into it!
Next Month’s Self-Improvement Challenge

Eat a fruit once a day. All these long sick days lately suck! I’m aiming for being super healthy for the last two months of the year. Remember to make your health a priority, friend! <3

Oh! And before I forget!

You’ve probably noticed it but…


I’ve moved all my followers from my previous site over here and have also enabled site redirect. I reckon that’s enough time for my blog to fully transition into being self-hosted. It’s been a stressful week but I’m also really loving all the new functions and features I haven’t been able to access before!

I may write an entire post on why I changed but the gist of it is this:

I feel like my smol blog is ready for it. All The Trinkets has been with me as I embarked on changes and new journeys in my life. This is just another one of them. I’m super excited with what the year ahead has in store for this tiny space that is my virtual home, and I hope you come along with me in this journey too <3
The Bit of Changes that Will Happen in the Coming Weeks

There aren’t really any huge changes you will notice. I still post every Wednesday plus the Side Notes at the end of the month. I don’t really want to change theme or the blog’s look at the moment because I know that’s an whole ‘nother math problem to go through.

Here’s what you can expect though:

  1. I will be setting up an email list. This is mainly for my non-blogger readers who subscribe via email. (I see you! Come say hi!) I’m still figuring out if I could do the whole Follow By Email thingy that you can on WordPress.com. But yeah, there will be a subscription of sort for my non-blogger readers.
  2. There will be social sharing buttons on posts. This one I’m still figuring out. But I want to look for a plugin with the option to hide the social sharing button, if you want to. I go to some blogs that have their social share blocking the posts and I can’t hide it and it is NOT a fun reading experience, let me tell you.
  3. I will be using Google Analytics. You can read through my Privacy Policy for further information. Don’t worry, I don’t use the data for anything other than reviewing blog performance and content planning 🙂


How was your October? Are your blog going through big changes at the moment? Is there a goal you want to reach next month? Let me cheer you on!

xx Kate

Photo by Ivory Mix

20 Replies to “October brings in New Friends // Side Notes”

  1. You’re so awesome!!! You found so many cool things this month, and even though it wasn’t all rainbow and sunshine and unicorns, I’m glad it was overall good. You’re such a badass, and I’m so happy I got to know you. Well done on going self hosted! Such an amazing step. I can’t wait to see what comes next, so excited for you. This post made me excited x

    1. Ahhh thank you it was a stressful month but the good things outweighed the bad and that’s what matters I am so so happy I got to know you as well! Thank you again, Lavrax!

  2. Congratulations on some fantastic achievements for the month! Although I hope you’re feeling much better now? Thank you for all of the recommendations, I’ll be sure to have a look x

    1. Thank you, Alex! And yes, I am feeling much better now It was my pleasure! I’m all for sharing awesome stuff Let me know if you found something good from them!

  3. This is such a feel good post. I hope november brings us more happiness. :)))

    1. Aww I’m happy you think so! It was a feel good post to write haha! I hope so too Have a great day!

  4. Congrats on your achievements this month. I was Kiki last year for Halloween its one of my favorite Studio Ghibli films. I hope that you have an even better November. Keep up the great work. 😀

    1. Thanks so much, Louise! And ooh, Kiki is definitely a great Halloween costume Hope you’ll have an awesome November too!

  5. I see you’re enjoying and playing around with your new self-hosted blog! Good luck with everything!

    My October was super busy and stressful and today has been the first day in… close to a month that I’m feeling pretty chill. And I know that it’ll be the last for the next two weeks at least. Sigh.

    Have a great November!

    1. Thank you Sumedha! Yay for a chill day! But ag, your coming weeks sounds like they’ll be super busy. I hope you’ll find time to breathe and relax in between. And I know you can get through it!

  6. Wow you did have a busy month, despite being ill! Hope you are better now. Thanks so much for featuring my post, great to have a list all in one place of similar topics. Good luck with the November goals

    1. I guess I was I am feeling better, thank you! And no problem, I enjoyed reading your post Have a great November!

  7. Lavrax sent me! You have a lovely blog – so much energy!

    1. Thank you so much! That’s always what I’m aiming for and I’m so glad it has so much energy

  8. Wow! Thank you so much for including me in this post. I love the style of this post, I’ve not seen this before. It’s such a lovely idea to wrap up the month and think about what you want to achieve next month X

    Megan | https://meganelizabethlifestyle.com/

    1. I think I got the idea from book bloggers except they have bookish wrap ups and they set bookish goals. 🙂

  9. I love kiki’s delivery service so much! It’s always been on my mind since i first saw it as a kid.

    That’s so great u accomplished so much even if you got sick!
    Thanks for sharing all these awesome side notes hehe

    1. Omg and you even have the same name as her! All Kikis are great! 😉 Thank you!!!

  10. That’s so cool that you’ve gone self hosted now! I feel as though that’s always a big step in blogging.
    Also, love the inclusion of Kiki’s Delivery Service, I absolutely love anything Studio Ghibli related.

    1. Yesss! I LOVE Studio Ghibli too <3

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